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Danielle’s Story #2
I told myself that once I settled down with someone and stopped playing games he would be the one I would loose my virginity to because he would be the man I love. That was the one thing I promised myself but that was a promise that I did not keep. I thought my first love would not force me to go against my morals. Now, I know that no one can force you to go against the person you are, only you can give in and do that. I thought that I personally would never go against the standards I set for myself but one can ever tell what you will do when you think that you have fallen in love. So why did I pick Shawn to get close to, I have no good reason other than my heart was controlling the hell out of my brain. It’s…
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The Diary of Kimberly
Based on true life events of many women both young and those mature “The Diary of Kimberly” is a way for each woman to tell their story using their own words. For each woman “The Diary of Kimberly” is not only their way of healing, it is a way to bring awareness to issues that many of us face. Each one of these women is brave in telling their story and they are taking back themselves and their lives. Visit the website at www.thediaryofkimberly.com
Teens depressed or stressed?
Just by being unhappy on any given day doesn’t mean that you are depressed. We all experience bad days or bad weeks that may cause a sense of sadness. Teenage depression is more than just bad moods or sadness. Depression is a serious problem that impacts life however; choosing to leave the depression untreated can lead to problems in school, home, drug and alcohol abuse. Depression can also lead to murders and suicide. By learning the symptoms of depression you can learn to spot warning signs. Offer support to a teenager going through depression can help him or her get back on track in their lives.
Some symptoms of depression are listed below:
- depressed mood or sadness most of the time (for what may seem like no reason)
- lack of energy and feeling tired all the time
- inability to enjoy things that used to bring pleasure
- withdrawal from friends and family
- irritability, anger, or anxiety
- inability to concentrate
- significant weight loss or gain
- significant change in sleep patterns (inability to fall asleep, stay asleep, or get up in the morning)
- feelings of guilt or worthlessness
- aches and pains (even though nothing is physically wrong)
- pessimism and indifference (not caring about anything in the present or future) thoughts of death or suicide
Teen years can be tough however it seems that most teens can balance out those years. They maintain good friendships, they are successful in school, find the balance with outside activities, and they develop a strong sense of self. When teens suffer from depression their personality can be destroyed. Depression is highly treatable if teens seek help and if parents, guardians, teachers, counselors, friends, and others that may be close to teens get an understanding of the signs of depression.
We want our future leaders to grow into happy, healthy, strong adults.
Having Children Just to Abuse Them
There are so many children in the world who are victims of child abuse. A couple from Arizona was arrested because of alleged child abuse because of pictures posted on Facebook reported by foxnews.com http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/12/30/arizona-parents-arrested-over-facebook-images-duct-tape-bound-children/. Why do people have children just to abuse them? Child abuse is more than broken bones, neglect, or bruises it has long term effects. Child abuse lies within these four categories physical abuse, sexual abuse, general neglect, and emotional abuse.
- Physical Abuse – signs include injuries that are unexplained, complaints about beatings, consistent bruising.
- Sexual Abuse – signs include pain when sitting or walking, indiscreet masturbatory activity, Genital bruises or other injuries in the area.
- General Neglect – a child showing signs of dehydration, looking malnourished, having bad hygiene for example: bad teeth, smells no bathing.
- Emotional Abuse – signs include sometimes compliant, shy, withdrawn, passive, destructive, and aggressive.
When detecting child abuse you have to look for a number of signs in the child because those signs can take place at any given time. Some signs of child abuse are:
- Child being withdrawn
- Complaints about beatings
- Is unusually fearful of other children and adults
- Has an injury that is not adequately explained
There are many other signs that a child is experiencing abuse such as
- Parents show little concern for the child
- Parents do not adequately explain an injury the child has suffered
- Parents are very strict disciplinarians
In a report by Robert Preidt (Medline) says that “a new study finds abuse in childhood may be associated with changes in the teenage brain.” The study basically reports that teens that have been abused have less gray matter in the brain; this is the tissue that contains the brain cells read more on this study at http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/news/fullstory_119375.html. Abuse in any form is not okay if you suspect that a child may be a victim of child abuse you can contact your local Child Protective Services Agency or contact the National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453). If we stand together we can help.